Thursday, 31 July 2014

5 Signs He May Be ‘Small’ Down There

I know you sitting there thinking, nothing could be worse than having an aching tooth. But there is sister, there is. Imaging waiting for months on end to have sex with a guy and then discovering he’s got a small ‘man’ down there. It’s like being hungry the whole day and anticipating that food you left in the fridge only to find someone already ate it. If you've ever gone through such a thing then you know that discovering he’s small down there could leave you crying in a corner wondering what next. You just there at a corner crying over your squashed dreams and future. Basically, all a woman wants in a potential boyfriend is a nice looking dude, with a good job, a great car and a nice penis.  (But a nice penis most times than not trumps all the other 3). It’s hard to find a man with all four but deep inside we all hoping that when his pants go down, we find the “king of the jungle.”
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When you discover he is not well endowed, please don’t hurt his feelings because they are over sensitive. The very fact that you know, will be sensitive. Don’t make him feel bad about it. But if you would want to know if he is ‘small’ before you cross some thresholds, here are some signs to look out for. 
PS, it’s on a light note guys. Everyone can be loved and everyone deserves to be loved and desired.
1. He is a relationship guy
They think that if they are a really good boyfriend, then you will get distracted from his small penis. He takes you out, cooks you great food, washes your clothes; does all the good things any chick wants but doesn't always get from other guys. But it won’t take you long to know because he moves from relationship to relationship. They find it hard to keep women around.
2. If he has exes, they all cheated on him
The one reason that drives women to cheat is feeling neglected, whether emotionally or physically. When the sex is good, the emotional part is neglected. When you ask your new guy what happened to previous relationships and he claims they all cheated on him. Then you know the problem; it’s even more telling if the ex was cheating on him with his best friend.
3. He never pressures you for sex
If the guy you are with is taking so long to ask, maybe he is not such a gentleman after all. They have no problem withholding sex. Even after you've been in a relationship with him for some time, he may never ask. No one wants to feel inadequate all the time. But if you are still with him, make him feel at ease by initiating the sex sometimes. You don’t have to wait until he asks, do it. You will boost his morale.
4. Talk of the bitch
A man with a small penis has lots of emotions. He literary becomes the bitch in the relationship. I think he fights so hard to be seen as the man in the relationship. His emotions escalate and he can become irrational at some point. When a woman becomes unsatisfied in the bedroom for some time, they become the man. You somehow become insensitive to his feelings and you start bossing him and making rules. And this could lead to a bad ending. 
5. Is insecure
This is well hidden behind pride and stubbornness. They have such a big ego and create a facade that even though he’s small in size; he’s worth more than gold. He has an extravagant lifestyle to try and hide his shortcomings.
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If most of these traits describe the guy you dating right now, then he most likely than not has the small dick syndrome. But he is not a lost cause. If you love a guy to bits, don’t leave him because he is not well endowed. Am sure if you did some research, you would find ways to get around this situation so that everyone is satisfied. He could also try and work on his emotional and insecurity issues first, and then everything can work out fine from there. Furthermore, even though size has its advantages, sometimes it’s not all that matters. And everyone deserves to love and be loved back. 

Watch this wonderful BBC3 documentary which follows Lawrence Barraclough as he comes to term with the size of his small penis.

Tuesday, 29 July 2014

Guarantee She Reaches Orgasm With These Two Tricks

Part one 
Sex is a wonderful thing - I haven't met a person yet who would dispute this. Everybody loves sex, whether they like talking about it openly or not. One of the reasons you're reading this is because you enjoy sex and you would like to enjoy it more and have your partner enjoy it more. For all you males reading this, wouldn't you like to be known around town as the greatest !**@! of all time? Or husbands and men in steady relationship - wouldn't you like your woman to be amazed at your new found sexual knowledge and have her beg you for more sex? Sex can be the greatest pleasure a person can ever experience - or a major disappointment. 
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Surveys have shown that 75% of women fake orgasm every time, 15% faked it most of the time and about 9.5% said they occasionally faked it. Which leaves about 0.5% who said they never faked it. I know most of you men out there will find this hard to believe, but it's true. 

Women, by faking orgasms, are missing out on one of the most pleasurable experiences imaginable - but so are their partners. You will realize the difference once you have read this playgal exclusive article. Both the male and females sexual pleasure increases to unbelievable new heights once you know how to bring a woman to an orgasm every time. Your woman will want you as never before - she will never want or need another man. And girls, if you want to have better sex, then teach your man what I am about to tell you. 

Most men I have met were anxious to learn how to satisfy women during sex. Each man I interviewed I asked 'what do you think makes a woman orgasm most during intercourse?' most responses were along the lines of: 
'just putting my penis inside her gets her excited' - it may get your partner excited but it is not enough - nowhere near enough. 
'She just loves me ramming her hard' - this is so far from the truth it is ridiculous! 
'!**@! her fast' - wrong! 

It is generally easy for men to become sexually aroused because his sexual organs are on the outside of the body and are easily stimulated. Men that are unfit mentally or physically can sometimes take longer to arouse, as do men that are bored with their partners. Do you know the main reason men get bored with their partners sexually? Could it be that the woman herself is bored because she is not getting sexual pleasure and therefore doesn't seem interested in sex as much? Sex would get boring if the pleasure is all one sided, don't you think guys? Imagine having sex every few days and never reaching an orgasm. Doesn't sound like much fun does it? 
Some men can get a woman worked into a sexual frenzy during foreplay, but then when it comes to intercourse, the momentum doesn't continue and in most cases, both the man and woman don't know what is wrong. Then the woman finally pretends to have an orgasm because she wants the whole event to be over to end the boredom and/or pain. 

If a man doesn't know how to handle intercourse properly the woman will become bored and unsatisfied in the relationship, and look for other options. Most women will tell their men everything is great - just to keep them feeling like a man. The men usually are unsuspecting that there is a problem. But guys, it's not your fault - you're a man; how could you possibly know what it feels like? Only a woman really knows how to satisfy a woman. Only a woman knows the physical sensations of a woman's body. Most women don't like talking about it with their partners because it may make them feel less manly. 

Most literature is written about rough, ramming and hard sex, so why would anyone think sex should be different - most women think this is the way to have sex too. But I’m going to help you and your partner enjoy sex to its maximum.

Tease your partner first 
Women like affection. They like to have their bodies gently caressed. Imagine yourself lying totally naked and 100% relaxed with hands slowly and gently touching your body. Try running your fingertips gently, so gentle you are barely touching your body along the inside of your own arm down to your hand. It tickles a bit but it feels nice, even if it feels like you need to scratch it a little. 
When making love with your partner you need to give their body a desire. Gently run your fingertips all over her body barely touching the skin. Do this for 3-4 minutes without touching the breasts or clitoris then slowly work your way up to her breasts but don’t touch her nipples. Circle her breasts with the palms of your hands and fingertips. You can occasionally kiss gently around her breasts but don't touch her nipples yet - touch below and above them but not on them. This will start to drive her crazy - you have created a desire for you to touch her nipples. You are not giving her something she wants. After a few minutes of teasing her very very softly, touch her nipples. Then continue to circle the nipples gently with your fingers then gently lick once or twice next to each nipple but not on it. 
You are in total control - she is being driven insane by now. You have created an excitement and desire within her sexual being. Now when you feel she is ready - she will let you know it is time to move on to the next step. 
it is important not to weaken and begin to grope and paw at her breasts and body and do not touch her clitoris in this teasing phase - it will only turn her off. The purpose is to create a want. Don't weaken - stay in control, this is only the warm-up for great love making. 

Part two 
Ready for action! 
Now, you're both ready to go . You're hard and ready, and she's giving you that look that says she wants it. You just want to plunge straight in - and she's cheering you on. Don't do it! 
You haven't gone to all this effort to blow it all now, pardon the pun. Now - you've got to really start torturing her.
Touch your penis to the lips of her clitoris . Gently. Softly rub your penis over her clit, letting her know it's there, ready to enter. If you want it to. You are now completely in charge, and in total control of the situation. You're going to tease her until she screams for you to put it in! 
Now, she's asking you to put it in. But you don't. Keep teasing. She asks more urgently. You still don't. You are in control, and she's loving it - not knowing when you're going to enter! Keep teasing, gently rubbing, even if she does scream for you to put it in. 
Only when she begins building towards orgasm do you move it further in . Just half an inch or so, very slowly, in and out. After a little while (staying in control!) move it slowly in a full inch. Gradually, keep increasing the amount you put it in, until it's almost the whole length. 
Remember, if you enter the entire length - ram it in - you will make contact with her clit, and this we don't want; the object is to tease her, make her want you to thrust all the way. The longer you tease her, and yourself, the more intense your orgasms will be. 
The point of surrender now, she's quivering with desire. Speed up a little - not to ramming speed though - and it'll push her over the edge. She may scream, she may call at your name (hopefully!) or she may just whimper softly - but you'll know you've given her an orgasm. But keep going! Keep moving in and out, faster now; she'll orgasm again - more quickly now, with no need for teasing. You can speed up even more if you wish (and can) - but don't resort to 'ramming' her hard. 
She may have several more orgasms. Or only one more. Two to five is the norm, and this may be the first one she's had in a long time! If you've been able to keep going past the first one, that's great . But even if you cum now, it will be one of the deepest and most incredible orgasms you yourself have ever had. 
Refine your technique; try to make yourself hold off longer and longer. It will enrich the sexual experience for both you and your partner. 
Note to part 2: 
if you're both adventurous - and really willing to torture each other, wait until the point of orgasm and stop - dead. Withdraw, and lie down beside her. Then resume again later that or the next day. The anticipation will peak, until the next time you'll both be ready with hardly any teasing! 
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And here is a bonus video

Monday, 28 July 2014

How to Tell When Your Man Is Totally Faking Orgasm

I know, you don’t believe me, but it’s true. Men do fake it too. I know you are sitting there thinking, ‘I would definitely know if he faked it.’ But could you? 
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Research done has shown that 30 percent of them have faked it at one point or another. Reasons for this being Society for one. It’s socially acceptable for a lady to turn down sex but the same rules do not apply to men. A man who says no to sex would cause a stop in the spinning of the world, literary. The second reason is that sometimes they are pressured if the partner is about to reach orgasm or has already reached it. Yeah, it’s tough being a guy too. 
Dr Abraham Morgentaler, a urology professor at Harvard even published a book about it. Why Men Fake It: The Totally Unexpected Truth About Men And Sex. He says that 'While it's OK for a woman to say she's too tired to make love, or has a headache - in fact it's so common there are jokes about it - it's not acceptable for men,' he said. 'The image is that men are always up for sex, which makes you feel under pressure to perform even when you don't want to.'
Don’t get them wrong ladies; they do it out of kindness! ‘In their minds, [faking an orgasm is] actually a form of kindness. In a way, they're letting the other person know that they've done a good job,' he says.
So how do you know when he’s faking it?
1. Ridiculous performance
There is even a guide by AskMen on how they should do this, imagine! "Overacting will kill this performance. You must do your best to have your fake orgasm be as much like a real one as possible. Don't overdo it with loud moans, crazy facial expressions, lots of thrashing about, or anything else out of character during your fake climax." So if you notice some excessive moaning, something is up girl.
2. The climax is on record speed
He has his orgasm right after you’ve had yours. Remember the kindness, Dr. Morgentaler talked about? Yeah that’s it. It’s so much easier to pretend he’s had his orgasm rather than have you wait until he actually does.
3. He’s still erect
It so happens naturally that when a guy climaxes, his penis becomes flaccid. Sometimes not immediately, but it happens a few minutes after. So if your guy is still erect, 10 minutes after, then you need no writing on the wall.
4. He sleeps immediately after
If you usually cuddle immediately after sex, but today he sleeps immediately, then he faked the orgasm because he wanted to sleep. Society won’t let him say ‘No, am too tired today, or I've got a headache.’
5. Missing ‘wet spot’
Faking it while a condom is involved is too easy. But if your relationship is a no condom zone, you know a ‘wet spot’ somehow results. So if there’s none and you don’t have to argue on who should sleep on it today, then girl, he faked it.
6. He is in a ‘bathroom rush’ immediately after.
If he dashes to the bathroom immediately after an orgasm, then girl he just faked it. He is trying to rush and hide the fact that there’s no semen in the condom. It’s not like you would check or have time to (especially if you've had your orgasm) but hey, a dude’s got to be careful. You should be curious; especially if it’s the first time he dashes out immediately after sex.
So there you have it, they do fake it!

Has your guy ever faked it? 

Saturday, 26 July 2014

7 Ways To Get Her To Absolutely Like You

Want a girl to like you? Forget everything else the web has told you and concentrate on these 7 killer methods. They will ease your work when it comes to getting that girl you like.
1. Don’t be needy
Most guys are single because they unintentionally give off a needy vibe when around attractive girls. Get your own life; don’t cling to a girl like plastic wrap. No girl wants to be clinged to unless it’s for the wrong reasons like being insecure or control freaks. So avoid getting into the friend zone. This does not however mean that you play hard to get. Just avoid desperation.
2. Forget making a girl comfortable, build attraction first.
Do not try to make a girl comfortable immediately you meet. Do this and they will see you as just a friend. Woe unto you if this happens. It will be very hard for the girl to see you as anything else but a friend later on. So build attraction first. Have fun and relax in her presence. Act confident, cool and calm for a change and things will go with the flow.
3. Talk
Lonely guys have one thing in common; they never talk. Well, if you want to get a girl to like you, you have to start talking. Girls view talkative guys as being more attractive. Don’t be a blabbermouth though. Make sure the girl is interested in whatever you are talking about and is actually listening to you.
4. Chivalry is not dead
Practice chivalry. It’s very rare nowadays and if a girl is attracted to you, add chivalry to the equation. Bring her some flowers; hold open doors; small things like that will get you a long way with the girl you like.
5. Groom yourself
Put more effort in your grooming. Clean up your hair, clothes and make sure you smell good. Iron out your clothes, keep your hair neat etc. and these things will make sure you are ahead of the competition.
6. Be positive
Have positive energy around you at all times. Show the girl you are a positive person and be an exciting person to be around. If you are positive, you will draw the girls to you like a magnet. Girls want to be around a guy who is positive and fun. It’s not hard to be positive, just flash on a bright smile and rid yourself of any negative emotions.
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7. Be confident
Girls love a positive guy. Take control of situations and show that alpha male personality. Step up and show the girl that you can provide for her anything she wants or needs in life.
It’s not hard to seduce and get that girl you want. Small things are what matter. Trust me. Watch this video and get some more tips. On a serious note.

What do you think guys? Have any of these ever worked for you?

Friday, 25 July 2014

Ladies, These 8 Tips Will Make You Irresistible

1. Be Confident
Tap into your inner beauty. When you look and feel your best, guys sense your confidence and trust me this is good. Talk confidently. When nervous, you talk in a high pitch and fast, but when confident, you show how cool and collected you are (please don’t show him you are nervous no matter how much your stomach flips). Walk with confidence too and try and get the all-eyes-on-me strut. You know, arch your back and have arms at your side.
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2. Boost his ego
Compliment him when he does something good no matter how small. Let him talk about something he loves too. This will make him associate the feel good vibes with you. If he tells you about an upcoming project, wish him good luck that morning. Trust me, this works magic!
3. Clean up and Smell Good.
Don’t use the whole can, just something small. And please let it smell good and be constant. No surprises! He will associate you with that particular sweet scent and trust me he will be thinking about this later. As for clothes, dress seductively especially when you go out. Think a tight lacy top or that short black skirt that makes his imagination go wild.
4. Talk about your passions
When you talk about something you love, your face glows and trust me you look more attractive at the moment.
5. Be flirty
Be out of reach a little but make it clear to him that you are interested. Don’t overdo it; make sure he knows he’s still got some work to do. Nudge him with your elbow as you talk, touch his forearm; just little ways to touch him. Remember: don’t overdo it. You are trying to show him you are interested while at the same time leaving him longing for your touch. 
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6. Have opinions
Suggest a place to go once in a while. Could be a restaurant you like, a movie you are dying to see. It shows you know what you want and not making him call all the shots will be a huge turn on. Don’t be a ‘yes’ girl; always agreeing with whatever he says. Give your opinion and learn to say ‘no’ sometimes. But don’t be rude. 
7. Get to know his friends
I didn’t say hang out with his bro’s every time. No! Make sure that when you meet them you strike conversations with them. A stamp of approval from his friends will be a ticket into his life. This also means you need to get a life too and hang out with your friends. Some time away from each other will make him miss you. It also shows you've got a life and he will accept the challenge to compete with your other interests gladly.
8. Do things that he likes
This will make him know that he can still do things he likes when around you. If you can do it together, the better! Like play a video game with him, you don’t have to be good at it. You can also watch a game with him, even if you are just there to watch the hunk footballers. Concentrate though but don’t spend the entire game asking who that player is and why that was not a goal. 
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Share with us what works for you and what doesn't.

Thursday, 24 July 2014

Would You Kiss A Stranger?

Would you kiss a stranger? 20 strangers kissed for the first time on camera and it was both adorable and fantastically awkward. They kept smiling and giggling throughout the whole thing!
Check it out, It's fun

Would you kiss a stranger?

Uncovering The Art Of Seduction

Whether you are experienced in the dating world or just starting out, meeting someone and making an effect creates anxiety. Your hormones are triggered into overdrive but what you do after the trigger is what counts. Some people have no idea what to do next after making first contact with the opposite sex. But there are some pros that have no time to waste once the initial contact is made.
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In different cultures, seduction stands for different things and it means different things to different people.  To some people, seduction inspires images of emotional intimacy and love and creates a general feeling of excitement, sexual desire and sensuality. Others don’t like the idea of seducing since it creates a fear of being victimized, deceived and sexually harassed. They believe that the one seducing is not acting out of love but out of another motive. The art of seduction in most societies has been seen to result into hurt, destruction and lots of damages if allowed to be expressed freely. It’s generally viewed as a way of tricking someone into believing nonsense to be reality. 

In today’s society, seduction can be classified with actions like trickery, deception, exploitation, selfishness, pretense or playing with words. But for those who have embraced it, seduction is an amazing thing. Being able to seduce someone and leave them craving for more is viewed as a huge accomplishment and those who can do it without batting an eyelid are celebrated. 

In most cases, seduction has nothing to do with love, it’s about getting something like financial favors or sex using deceit and trickery. Am sure most of us can point out instances where our attempts at seduction have been out of manipulative and selfish desires and not out of love or selflessness. Most people learn the art of seduction right from their childhood. They can get anything from anyone as long as they put their mind into it. But for most of us, we have to learn how to seduce the hard way.

How successful you are at the art of seduction is mostly determined by the value your target puts on you. Like for example, if as a guy you learn how to complement and pay attention to a girl, you make her feel special and boost her ego. Overdo this and she loses interest. 

Am sure you have come across great looking guys or girls who have constant relationship problems. They get dumped and rejected because they do not know how to keep tension live in their relationships. Sometimes they forget that their physical appeal is not enough and that psychological attraction is the key. All in all, you need more than great looks to keep a partner interested! 

That’s why most long term relationships fail. You have great experiences, are loyal and love each other to bits. But this does not last long. Immediately those interests and feelings stop being maintained, people change. 

Have you ever wondered why a hot chick falls for an ugly guy? Why people stick to abusive relationships or why people chase after their exes? “Attraction is not a choice” and we have no ability to decide how to feel about someone. We know when a relationship is bad for us, when it’s destructive and when we are dissatisfied; but we stick with the same relationships no matter what. This is because emotional thinking always trumps rational thinking. 
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The key to the art of seduction is giving a partner a taste of what they want, letting them experience the highs of being with you and then taking it away. You let them feel what it would be like to never have such an experience again. That’s the reason we fall for unstable people. These partners are unpredictable and exciting. They are cold one day and affectionate and passionate the next. If in a relationship with such a person, you are always wondering why things have changed, how to get it back and going berserk thinking about the person. These people leave us wanting more and create lots of tension.
If a guy has problems with the girlfriend, she turns cold and the relationship has a lot of tension. He will announce he is done with her and swear he will get another and bang her. But deep inside, he is craving her attention and can’t think of any other girl but her. In fact, he would turn down a hot chick throwing herself at him in the bar. Lots of evidence is there to show that people often cheat in their relationships when they are content and secure. Attraction levels at that time are low and they are craving some tension their relationship isn’t offering. The highs and lows in a relationship are what keep it going.

The art of seduction is therefore all about maintaining the psychological attractiveness. It has nothing to do with physical attractiveness, wealth or respectability in society.

Do you know what to do after making that first contact?  Are you a pro in the art of seduction?